Too Late To Apologize
Posted by LMReviewsApr 8
Welcome back!
Like viewing the past through a different set of eyes, things look familiar but they are just not quite the same. This greatly describes our recent focus on race relations. Due to the election of a multicultural president and nearly everyone’s economic struggle, a light shines brightly on the topics of race and class. I’ve seen an abundance of articles on multiculturalism, interracialism and race relations.
While I am excited by the sudden abundance of information and reading material, one article caught me off guard. I am sure by now most have heard about Elwin Wilson. He is the South Carolina man who has received pubicity for the apologies he’s given as a result of his previous racist behavior. His misdeeds run the gamut from racial slurs to harrassment and assaults.
Many have commended him, riduculed him and proclaimed him a hero. The article left me wondering, ”Is it too late to apologize?” While apologies should always be recognized, I am not sure lifting Wilson to the status of hero is appropriate. Many have asked, “Why now?” and I have that nagging question too. We seem perfectly comfortable with people making amends as they near entry into the pearly gates or the firery depths. Maybe it is not for us to judge or questions his motives but to acknowledge the apology. But, are we to believe that a man who still refers to people of color as separate from himself because of skin color has really changed his ways. In one quote, his motive becomes clear. According to the Associated Press, he said “And I found out there is no way I could be saved and get to heaven and still not like blacks.”
We all know the way a genuine apology sounds. Wilson, who is dealing with poor health, probably has nothing to gain but peace and an emotional boost from those quick to label him a hero. The sincerity of his apology is really between him and his maker.
We are in desparate need of a hero these days. In a society that has been “all about me” for several years now, it seems like almost any kind gesture will do. I hope we can be more selective in the future, because while Wilson’s apology may set a good example for others who shared his original opinions about race, the act of forgiveness is really between those directly involved.
