
courtesy mycine
As I mentioned before, it was a Jet magazine article about Kerry Washington that lead me to see Lakeview Terrace, her new movie starring Samuel L. Jackson and produced by Will Smith’s production company, Overbrook Entertainment Management.
In short the movie is about a young interracial couple who is terrorized by Abel Turner, a black veteran police officer played by Samuel L. Jackson who does not approve of his neighbors’ interracial marriage.
More than just a movie about interracial relationships and racial intolerance, this movie hit home for me on many levels. I loved the idea that we were witnessing the white male’s point of view. We always seem to focus on the disapproving white family or white society when dealing with interracial couples or the passive aggressive feelings exhibited by the African American families associated with the interracial romance.
While we finally get to see that side I found it a little annoying that in this movie and in Something New, when the white male expresses exhaustion at the constant reminder and discussion of race, his African American partner can’t empathize with him, because her life has always been about race. While I understand the implication that finally this white person is getting a taste of what we put up with everyday of our lives, I don’t think it is wrong for him to find it difficult or hard to endure. After all, if we as African Americans didn’t have to deal with it, would we? He doesn’t have to, but chooses to because of his love for this woman of color. If you can’t express those moments of anxiety and emotional exhaustion to your significant other who happens to live it every day as well, then who can he turn to?
There were a couple of other themes that ran through this movie that I had experienced in my own interracial relationships and it caught me off guard to see them depicted here.
First, undoubtedly, I have been African American all my life, and while I’ve had many non-blacks say they don’t see me as a black person just a person or just me, it is not as reassuring or comforting to hear as they might have hoped. While being black is not all that I am, it is an important quality of who I am. I say quality because I appreciate and cherish it. So, I want people to see my beautiful toffee skin, my full lips and my penetrating coal-like eyes.
In this movie, all those things that should be celebrated were now for naught, because Kerry Washington’s character, Lisa had bonded herself in marriage to a white man. Even in Abel’s rage over the white man “getting everything and anything he wants including our women” Abel degrades her as he lusts for her.
In the opening scenes, when Kerry’s character, Lisa is doing the walk-through of the house with her father, Abel was more comfortable seeing a potentially older black man receive the flirtatious affections of a woman young enough to be his daughter than see that young black girl with a white man her own age.
In playing a strict disciplinarian to his teenage children, it was perfectly ok to drop trou in front of Lisa to demonstrate to his daughter that parading around in a bathing suit despite being poolside in a backyard was inappropriate.
Also noteworthy, is a brief scene between Chris and his friend at the couple’s housewarming party. The friend, who is a white male, tells Chris that he’s hit the jackpot in marrying Lisa and that he’s hoping to land a black girl of his own one day. For now, however, he’s getting a taste of the Pacific Rim. It’s that notion that men regardless of race are perfectly free to taste all the female flavors, but as far as the women who share their race, they better know to whom they belong. This is something that is brought up again in conversation between Abel’s daughter and Lisa in case the audience missed it the first time.
Other themes that hit home were the contrast between Lisa’s husband and the minority men in the film. On more than one occasion Chris’ suitability to protect his family came up in the film. First, his father-in-law asked directly how he planned to protect Lisa and his future grandchildren, and later, Chris isn’t even given the chance to protect Lisa from an intruder because Abel dashes in with his gun drawn to “take care” of the attacker.
In my own relationships, that often came up as well. There are alpha and beta men in every race. No matter the melanin levels, some men are protector types and some are not. I didn’t date the men I dated because I wanted a protector and yes, I didn’t feel especially “safe” around them; at least no safer than when I was with anyone else. Maybe that’s one of the reasons those relationships didn’t last. While women don’t always look to be protected, maybe the men in their lives have to feel trusted that they could protect them if the need should arise?
And yes, if you’re wondering, I was a daddy’s girl and always felt safe with him nearby. Unfortunately he is only near me in spirit now.
I really went into this movie not expecting to find anything more than a new twist on racial intolerance, but I came out with reassurance that my own interracial experiences were not unusual or isolated. They were a part of bigger social and generational interrelationships that are further complicated by gender and race.